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Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Understanding the many parts of you

Internal Family Systems (ISF) Defined

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a non-pathologizing evidence based therapeutic approach that views the mind as a system of different parts, each with its own role and purpose. Sometimes, these parts can hold onto painful emotions, past traumas, or protective behaviors that may affect your thoughts and actions. For example, one part of you might be critical to protect against disappointment, while another part may carry worry to keep you safe.

How does IFS help?

IFS can be particularly effective for individuals dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, self-criticism, or relationship challenges. By helping you connect with and understand these parts, IFS fosters self-compassion and empowers you to relate to yourself in a more harmonious way.

What to expect with IFS

In an IFS session, we’ll work together to get to know the different parts of you and understand the roles they play. This process allows you to gain insight into why certain thoughts, feelings, or behaviors arise, and to relate to these parts with kindness. You’ll learn to approach each part with curiosity and compassion, fostering a balanced, accepting relationship with yourself. The goal is to help you find a centered, peaceful state from which you can engage with life’s challenges with confidence.

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